The Wifey Era

Hello readers,

I have officially closed my bridal era and stepped into my wifey era. And yes—just as some of you may be wondering—I’m currently living with my in-laws. My younger self would be shocked to know that I’m still living with parents even after getting married, because I used to believe that living separately was the ideal scenario in life. But with time comes wisdom, and perspectives change.

As expected, I’ve always been someone who processes emotions a little late. I felt completely fine before moving out of my old home, but once I settled into my new one, the reality caught up with me—and that’s when the loneliness began. Now, two weeks in, I’m slowly getting used to life here. I feel calmer, more grounded, and I’m learning to enjoy my solitude once again.

People often ask what actually changes after marriage. I’m not sure I have all the answers yet, but here’s what I’ve felt in these past two weeks:

• Calling your in-laws Mom and Dad. It may feel a little awkward at first, but eventually, it starts to feel natural.

• Making breakfast for two instead of one.

• Grocery shopping no longer just for yourself, but also for your partner.

• Realizing that when you return to your parents’ house, you’re no longer home—you’re a guest.

• And somehow, spending time with parents and grandparents becomes even more precious than before.

That’s all I have for today. Hopefully, I can slowly return to my routine of writing blogs. Until then, see you again, dear readers.